What
Is SOS?
SOS is an alternative recovery method for those
alcoholics or drug addicts who are uncomfortable with the
spiritual content of widely available 12-Step programs. SOS
takes a reasonable, secular approach to recovery and
maintains that sobriety is a separate issue from religion or
spirituality. SOS credits the individual for achieving and
maintaining his or her own sobriety, without reliance on any
"Higher Power." SOS respects recovery in any form
regardless of the path by which it is achieved. It is not
opposed to or in competition with any other recovery
programs.
SOS supports healthy skepticism and encourages the use of
the scientific method to understand alcoholism.
The SOS Groups
SOS is a non-profit network of autonomous, non-professional
local groups dedicated solely to helping individuals achieve
and maintain sobriety. There are groups meeting in many
cities throughout the country.
All those who sincerely seek sobriety are welcome as
members in any SOS Group. SOS is not a spin-off of any
religious group. There is no hidden agenda, as SOS is
concerned with sobriety, not religiosity. SOS seeks only to
promote sobriety amongst those who suffer from alcoholism or
other drug addictions. As a group, SOS has no opinion on
outside matters and does not wish to become entangled in
outside controversy.
Although sobriety is an individual responsibility, life
does not have to be faced alone. The support of other
alcoholics and addicts is a vital adjunct to recovery. In
SOS, members share experiences, insights, information,
strength, and encouragement in friendly, honest, anonymous,
and supportive group meetings. To avoid unnecessary
entanglements, each SOS group is self-supporting through
contributions from its members and refuses outside support.
The Sobriety Priority
Sobriety is the number one priority in an alcoholic's or
addict's life. As such, he or she must abstain from all
drugs or alcohol. Honest, clear, and direct communication of
feelings, thoughts, and knowledge aids in recovery and in
choosing non-destructive, non-delusional, and rational
approaches to living sober and rewarding lives. As knowledge
of drinking or addiction might cause a person harm or
embarrassment in the outside world, SOS guards the anonymity
of its membership and the contents of its discussions from
those not within the group.
SOS encourages the scientific study of alcoholism and
addiction in all their aspects. SOS does not limit its
outlook to one area of knowledge or theory of alcoholism and
addiction. To break the cycle of denial and achieve
sobriety, we first acknowledge that we are alcoholics or
addicts. We reaffirm this truth daily and accept without
reservation the fact that, as clean and sober individuals,
we can not and do not drink or use, no matter what. Since
drinking or using is not an option for us, we take whatever
steps are necessary to continue our Sobriety Priority
lifelong.
A quality of life - "the good life" - can be
achieved. However, life is also filled with uncertainties.
Therefore, we do not drink or use regardless of feelings,
circumstances, or conflicts. We share in confidence with
each other our thoughts and feelings as sober, clean
individuals. Sobriety is our Priority, and we are each
responsible for our lives and our sobriety.
In James Christopher's book, How to Stay Sober: Recovery
Without Religion, Christopher, founder of SOS, describes his
own "recovery without religion." He focuses on the
practical aspects of his triumph over alcoholism and
includes guidelines for the formation of secular support
groups. In Unhooked: Staying Sober and Drug Free,
Christopher recounts the evolution of SOS, invites the
reader to sit in on a fictionalized SOS meeting and offers
further strategies for achieving and maintaining sobriety
and self-respect. In his most recent book, SOS Sobriety: The
Proven Alternative To 12-Step Programs, James Christopher
describes the proven methods of alcohol and drug abstention
advocated by Secular Organizations for Sobriety (also known
as "Save Our Selves"), the world's largest
non-12-Step addiction recovery program.
The History Of SOS
The SOS movement began with an article in the Summer 1985
issue of Free Inquiry magazine, the leading secular humanist
journal in the country. James Christopher, the son of an
alcoholic and a sober alcoholic himself, wrote
"Sobriety Without Superstition," an account of the
path he took to sobriety. This path has led Christopher from
seventeen years of a fearful and guilty alcoholism to a
fearful and guilty sobriety with Alcoholics Anonymous.
Christopher felt that there must be other alcoholics who
wanted to achieve and maintain sobriety through personal
responsibility and self-reliance. He also felt that turning
one's life over to a "higher power" was not
compatible with current research that indicated that
addiction is the result of physiology, not psychology. As a
result of the tremendous response to the article from
alcoholics and addicts who wanted to maintain sobriety as a
separate issue from religion, Jim Christopher founded the
Secular Organizations for Sobriety.
Today there are SOS groups meeting in every state, as
well as in other countries. SOS has gained recognition from
rehabilitation professionals and the nation's court systems.
In November of 1987, the California courts recognized SOS as
an alternative to AA in sentencing offenders to mandatory
participation in a rehabilitation program. Also, the
Veterans Administration has adopted a policy which prohibits
mandatory participation in programs of a religious nature.
The SOS International Newsletter
The SOS National Clearinghouse publishes a quarterly
newsletter that is filled with items of interest to all
recovering substance abusers, to professionals, and to the
families and friends of alcoholics and addicts. The SOS
International Newsletter serves as an information source for
group convenors and as a forum for newsletter subscribers.
Subscriptions are $18 per year.
SOS meetings in the Los Angeles Area
Contact Information
For information about a group in your area, information on
book purchases or newsletter subscriptions, or if you would
like to start a group, contact:
SOS National Clearinghouse
The Center for Inquiry - West
4773 Hollywood Blvd.
Hollywood, CA 90027
Phone: (323) 666-4295
E-mail: sos@cfiwest.org
(Place "ATTN Clearinghouse" in the subject line.)
SOS is a subcommittee of the Council for Secular
Humanism, a nonprofit corporation. Gifts to SOS are fully
tax-deductible and should be made payable to
"SOS/Council for Secular Humanism".
Thank You at CFI West for this web page. To see all of this
web site go to
http://www.cfiwest.org/sos
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